FAQ
The answers to your questions about tantric massage therapy
FAQ
What exactly is tantra, tantrism and tantra massages?
Tantra: a journey to the heart of sacred sexuality.
Far more than a simple nude or tantric massage, Tantrism explores the spiritual and energetic dimensions of intimacy.
Discover how this ancient practice can transform your relationship with your body and your sexuality.
How do my sessions work, the state of mind, the intentions...
Explore the detailed answers and get to the heart of the tantric experience. In this FAQ, I'll answer all your questions.
How long do the massages last?
2 possible options: 1 option of 2 hours and 1 option of 3 hours. The 2-hour option will always be preferred the first time.
They include :
- Each massage lasts approximately 30 minutes.
- Then I invite you to take a shower.
- You will then be taken to the treatment room for your 1.5 or 2.15 hour massage.
- You can also take a shower after the massage if you wish.
How much does an individual or couple session cost?
My prices are transparent. The prices of my various services, as well as the booking conditions, can be found on the dedicated page. "Rates
Can we hope for deep relaxation?
Yes, during a tantric massage, you'll experience deep, deep relaxation thanks to the gentle attention paid to your body sensations and breathing, which help to release physical and emotional tension.
The practice of Tantric massage also encourages the release of energy blockages and invites a soothing inner connection, creating a state of deep relaxation conducive to holistic well-being.
Can we hope to reconcile ourselves with our bodies?
Yes, Tantric practice offers a gentle way of reconciling with your body by encouraging a loving and respectful approach to yourself, promoting acceptance and connection with your bodily sensations.
Through the careful practice of Tantric massage, you can gradually discover and value the positive aspects of your body, which can help to transform negative feelings towards it into a more harmonious and caring relationship.
Is there any hope of reducing burnout?
Yes, it can help to reduce burnout by providing a space for deep relaxation, allowing accumulated tension to be released. It promotes physical and emotional well-being.
Are you naked?
I am not naked. I massage in a sarong in order to maintain clear professional boundaries and to foster a respectful and safe environment for both the client and myself. In addition, this allows you to concentrate fully on the therapeutic and energetic aspects of the massage without creating confusion or misunderstandings.
Can we touch you?
No. During the massage, I am not touched in order to respect my privacy, as my body is my home and my most precious possession. Tantric massage is designed as a client-centred experience, where you can fully receive the benefits without distraction.
I'm afraid of ejaculating during the massage
I invite you to a unique experience where you will learn to control your energy during the massage. Conscious breathing is an essential part of this practice. Before starting the treatment, I'll teach you a specific breathing method that helps to fluidify the energy in your body, preventing it from becoming trapped in the lower abdomen.
Throughout the session, you will be ABSOLUTELY encouraged to keep your eyes closed. This approach will help you to minimise external stimuli and immerse yourself deeply in your inner experience.
It is also important to note that, in order to maintain the integrity and purity of the session, you are NOT ALLOWED to stroke me. This rule helps to avoid any drift and to guarantee a serene and respectful experience for both you and me.
It is also FORBIDDEN to place your hands on me in an inappropriate manner. A RESPECTFUL hug is obviously welcome, but wandering hands are strictly forbidden.
Is there an exchange?
No. I don't accept exchanges. During a tantric massage, there are no exchanges in order to maintain the focus on the recipient's well-being. This promotes a deep experience and allows the client to relax without worrying about giving back.
Is there a "finish"?
No. There's no finishing touch, because the aim is to encourage relaxation, body awareness, spiritual awakening and the rise of the kundalini, without ever being directed towards sexual activities.
This allows the principles of tantric massage to be respected, with the emphasis on the holistic well-being of the recipient.
Can this method be used to relieve premature ejaculation?
Yes, Tantric massage can be beneficial for those suffering from premature ejaculation by promoting greater body awareness and improved management of sexual sensations.
This type of massage encourages deep relaxation and the mind-body connection, which can help reduce anxiety about sexual performance and improve ejaculation control.
Can this method be expected to improve impotence?
Yes, this type of massage can be beneficial for impotence by promoting relaxation, blood circulation and helping to reduce the mental and emotional stress that can contribute to the problem.
Tantric massage can also help to strengthen the connection between body and mind, which can improve self-confidence and encourage a positive state of mind, beneficial for treating impotence.
Is there a yoni (female sex) massage?
The first time is very rare. Normally, only an apposition of the hands is performed, including specific points on the perineum, to encourage the circulation of energy, unless a specific request for a full yoni massage is made in advance.
In any case, we discuss what we want and what we don't want beforehand. Prior consent is essential.
What's more, during the yoni massage, if at any time there is discomfort, the stimulation of these areas will be stopped immediately.
Is there a lingam (male sex) massage?
Yes, a lingam massage in the context of a tantric massage is a practice that aims to honour and awaken male sexual energy in a sacred way.
It involves gentle, conscious stimulation of the lingam, including specific points on the perineum, to encourage the circulation of vital energy, without the aim of masturbation or direct sexual gratification.
Can this massage help restore your libido?
Yes, it can help restore libido by promoting deep relaxation and reducing stress, allowing the body and mind to reconnect and release emotional and physical tension.
It also stimulates the erogenous zones and awakens sexual energy, boosting body awareness and desire.
Is there a risk of provoking involuntary pleasure through the mind during this massage?
Yes, but it's very rare. To avoid orgasm during a tantric massage, it is essential to concentrate the mind on deep breathing and meditation, directing sexual energy upwards (in this case, I recommend returning to the heart) rather than letting it accumulate in the erogenous zones.
In addition, communicating clearly with the practitioner to adapt the pressure and techniques used can help to maintain a state of relaxation without reaching orgasm.
Is there a better time to have this kind of massage?
Tantric massage is ideal when you're feeling overwhelmed, stressed or need to reconnect with yourself. It's also a great opportunity to indulge in a moment of deep relaxation or simply satisfy your curiosity.
In conclusion, listen to your needs and let your feelings guide you.
What is tantric therapeutic and meditative massage?
Therapeutic and meditative tantric massage is a practice that combines conscious touch techniques with elements of meditation to harmonise the body's energy and calm the mind.
It aims to release emotional and physical tension while encouraging a deep inner connection.
To find out more, take a look at my video or consult the dedicated page on the where I explain this practice in more detail.
Can this massage restore passion to my relationship?
Tantric massage can rekindle the passion in a couple by fostering a deep intimate connection and encouraging emotional communication I invite you to go to the anchor "couple massage or on the "couple training for a more detailed explanation
What is the earliest age at which a Tantric session can be considered?
Personally, I only see people over the age of 21.
How old do you have to be to get a Tantric massage?
There is no specific age limit for receiving a tantric massage, as long as the person is in good health and feels comfortable with the practice.
However, it is important to choose an experienced practitioner and to discuss any pre-existing medical conditions before proceeding with Tantric massage, especially for older people.
I have a disability and I don't feel comfortable with my body.
I understand your concerns about your disability and physical comfort. Unfortunately, my massage area has stairs, which can make access difficult for people with reduced mobility.
However, I would like to stress that I massage everyone without distinction and I am open to discussing alternative solutions.
I also massage in complete darkness. I invite you to consult the page dedicated to massages where I explain it in more detail.
How does the yoni massage work (female sex)?
The yoni massage in a tantric massage is a delicate and respectful practice, focused on sensory exploration and the awakening of consciousness. It is performed with great sensitivity and open communication between giver and receiver, emphasising the pleasure of discovering relaxation and a non-sexual touch.
A variety of gentle touch techniques are used to stimulate the circulation of energy and encourage a deep connection with femininity and sensuality.
Before undertaking yoni massage in a tantric therapeutic and meditative context, an in-depth preliminary discussion during the intake interview takes place to clarify expectations, obtain clear consent and explain the process in detail.
Respect for the recipient's consent and comfort is paramount, and it is always possible to decide not to massage the yoni during the session, even if this was envisaged during the initial interview.
This approach guarantees a safe and respectful space for sensory exploration and fulfilment for the recipient. There is no internal massage of the yoni. See question below for details.
Is it common to perform an internal touch on women?
Although internal massage of the female genitalia can have therapeutic applications, its practice is complex because it is difficult to determine whether this touch can reactivate past traumas.
That's why, for reasons of safety and respect for personal boundaries, I'm not offering this approach as part of tantric massage at the moment.
Are you naked during the session?
Ideally, nudity allows for a more complete experience by welcoming the whole person, rehabilitating areas that are often neglected and fostering a sense of unity.
However, everyone's comfort and sensitivity come first, so if total nudity is too confronting, arrangements can be made to respect your rhythm and your limits.
Is this a full body massage?
Normally, yes. Every part of the body is treated with care, without favouring one area in particular, because they all deserve love and attention.
To neglect certain parts would be tantamount to an implicit devaluation, whereas every part is beautiful, sacred and worthy of attention.
By embracing the whole person, Tantra aims to rehabilitate areas that are sometimes neglected, fostering a sense of unity and wholeness.
However, your own limits are essential and will be respected. If there is an area of your body that should not be addressed during the session, don't hesitate to inform your masseur beforehand, so that your wishes can be taken into account.
Will I automatically feel or express my sexual energy?
The presence of sexual energy is by no means a prerequisite. Its absence can be perfectly legitimate and respected.
The masseur will not try to awaken it if it is not present, but will welcome it with simplicity if there is a spontaneous manifestation, with the aim of spreading it throughout the body, without any precise aim or particular focus.
Does this massage include tenderness and unconditional love?
This massage is given with an enormous amount of love and is felt by the recipient. Our society is in desperate need of tenderness, and the massage I practise offers you that. That's why I've also set up special evenings of tenderness and sweetness.
I invite you to consult the events page and to subscribe to my newsletters if you would like to take part in this type of event.
Is it similar to an erotic massage?
No. Erotic massages are often mislabelled as "tantric" for commercial purposes. The objectives of these massages differ greatly. While the aim of an erotic massage is generally to arouse the partner to orgasm, an authentic tantric massage has no such objective.
Although the recipient may feel a connection to their sexual energy, true tantric massage is simply about letting go and exploring the self.
It is part of a process of personal development and self-knowledge, which is not the case for an erotic or well-being massage.
Is this appropriate for couples?
Yes, Tantra is not intended for libertine purposes. It does not include sexual or amorous elements, but focuses instead on an individual journey of self-discovery, where the masseur's role is to guide this exploration.
So receiving a tantric massage is not incompatible with a couple's relationship.
What's more, it's even possible to take part as a couple, offering an enriching experience to share with your life partner. I invite you to browse the massage page where I explain in detail the benefits of this massage for couples.
What is the recommended frequency between two massage sessions?
For non-therapeutic tantric massage, the ideal frequency is that which corresponds to your individual needs. Listen to yourself.
However, there is usually an interval of around three weeks to a month between two sessions, to allow the experiences of the previous session to be properly integrated.
I have customers who come every week for a while and then one day they come less often. They listen to themselves.
In the case of therapeutic massages, the frequency may vary depending on the problem being treated, and in some cases a shorter period between sessions may be recommended.
What should I do if I have doubts about whether this type of massage is right for me?
Since this is a significant personal step, it's natural to ask questions. Don't hesitate to contact for a free, no-obligation discussion.
Do you give massages during video conferences?
No, but the online training courses will be here soon. So sign up for my newsletter to be kept informed.
Do you do any training?
Yes, I do private training for couples and group training for couples. I invite you to browse the training" page to find out more and subscribe to my newsletters to keep up to date.
Would you like to learn more about Tantra?
Many books explore Tantra from different angles. Discover a selection of books on Tantrism here bibliography